No I’m not talking about shoes here, though I wish I was 🙂 I’m talking about that point in life you get to, where you feel like it is the lowest possible point you can get to. Rock bottom means something different to everyone. For me, It is when I find myself so uncomfortable, that I know without an ounce of a doubt that I need to change whatever circumstance is causing that discomfort.

Every time I hit a rock bottom in life, I know It’s only a matter time until I become reborn and something amazing happens. Things can only go up from there, and that’s the beauty of being at your lowest, or what you consider to be your lowest.

The first rock bottom I had was in 2012. I was young, still trying to find my place in life, albeit a very promising future, but still, not there yet.It did not help that I was in a really vicious relationship breakdown. I was either going to disintegrate completely or find a way out(I did!)

I committed to changing my life and my mindset. I became more ambitious in building my career and my life and ended that relationship and that opened up doors for me I didn’t even know existed.

My second rock bottom was in 2016, when my mother passed away unexpectedly. I wasn’t sure when this rock bottom would end but thanks to my experience in 2013, I knew It was only a matter of time before I would rise again.



“Having been a massive fan of corduroy, I wanted to create a look to show you how easy it is to take a trend and make it you.

I paired this corduroy blazer with a leopard print skirt to play with the brown hues on the skirt”

I share these stories with you to let you know that rock bottoms are the best part of life. So for anyone who is experiencing a rock bottom in life, just know that when we hit the lowest points in life, this is when we are truly open to the greatest amounts of change.


Have faith in your future and share this post with a friend who needs to hear this.


Blazer – &Other Stories

Skirt – Zara(Sold Out) – – – – -Similar Here

Bag – Saint Laurent(Sold Out) —–Similar Here

Belt- Ferragamo

Shoes- Similar Here



  1. February 26, 2019 / 11:13 am

    When beauty and class meets intelligent 🤓 All I can say is top class, beautiful and sexy. Keep it up

    • kmercy
      March 1, 2019 / 9:35 pm

      Thank you babe!

  2. ChoCHo
    June 10, 2019 / 12:16 am

    I am a Fan, Unique Style

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